DP and I are extremely private people, and we both hate heaps of people over any way. I think i'd just let parents and my younger siblings, and my parters little girl (not mine) come and visit, and thats only at the hospital.

Then when we got home, just us. Send out a message to everyone saying we want our privacy for the first week or so. And then after that, call first, dont just drop in, cause if you hit that doorbell and you wake up my newborn, your going to have one p***ed off mum with sore nipples to deal with. Haha