Labour....I wish i known it was ok to say NO to some things that MW told me to do....(doh) Id read all the book and thought i had a handle on it....I wish id known that no book can tell you what YOUR body is going to do and you have to just trust YOUR body to do the right thing.

Baby....Wish id known that a baby can feed every ten minutes (or so it seemed) and that my milk wouldnt come in for 5 days and that huge painful swollen boobs was normal and the 'amazing bonding experience' that BFing was ment to be wouldnt happen in the first few weeks!!
When people say 'just do what works for you' to really do that, if that means locking your self away for a week, feeding and sleeping in bed together, never putting baby down or off the boob...do that. And when hearing the 'youl make a rod for your back'....'youl spoil her'...shel learn how to manipulate you' comments, just turn your brain off and smile, while humming a tune!! Pointless advice!!!

Dont have any photos of my belly in the last few weeks. Wish i did!