i could honestly see a c/s as more painful than a vaginal birth. i mean how long does it take a c/s incision to heal compared to a couple of stitches if you tear?

My mate had an 11 pound boy with no stitches or drugs, it's all about your state of mind and the breathing.

it's okay to state your mind and it wasn't stupid at all, was just your theory

But when you come down to it, it is a matter of the individual's choice.