tangent yes, but anyway...

Rainbows_ ....I had a first natural birth a few months ago and let me tell you, I don't have a 'baggy vagina' - I had sex one week to the day after the birth and it was as fabulous as ever (probably even more so due to the anticipation!). There is absolutely no depression or even a hint of a rememberance of trauma simply because there was no trauma. I was able to enjoy Caty immediately after she was born as I was in crazy heightened state of awareness which lasted for ages...the placenta came out without any effort (hardly even noticed it) and there were no stitches to stop me enjoying my lovely baby.
I'm not anti-c but it annoys me when natural birth is made to be an awful ordeal that only freaks go through when quite simply, it is not!