Brooke, darling! You chose your c/s and thats great! There is nothing against that. And I can tell you right now if I had to choose between having a c/s and not having a baby I would definitely choose a c/s. I have a gf who I know if she ever got pg would no way have a vag birth, and thats her choice and I will support her 100%, so when the time comes I will help her to have the most beautiful C/S she can have totally empowered! BUT I am still up there with the tree hugging pixie singing pro vag birthers
Its very different to CHOOSE a c/s and have one thrusted upon you especially when you later find out it was unnecessary. You wouldn't be happy if you went in for a boob job and came out with a penis unless you REALLY needed a penis, or REALLY wanted a penis. But if you came out with a penis because the Dr thought it would suit you or because he had more penis' than boobs thats not ok. BUT there are also very necessary emergency c/s' too. I can't stand bullying, and some Dr's do it for their benefit, I was bullied by an ob to have a c/s I said no way and changed obs. And the amount of women I know who have suffered trauma associated with the c/s (but not really the c/s but the power struggle itself that stems from the c/s) is sooo sad. The reason these risks are good to know is not so it makes people who choose a c/s feel bad its so that women question their medical carers so that they know they are getting the care that suits them.
I hope I'm making sense... You have your C/S its an empowered choice and you are going to make it the best damn C/S there is I bet and damnit woman sing to the pixies... they love it LOL! But please don't think anyone on here especially Kelly (who would have gladly held my hand in theatre had I chose a C/S) is attacking you for your choices coz thats not so... and if anyone does I'll be the first to tell em off LOL!
Last edited by {sarah}; August 3rd, 2010 at 08:20 PM.
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