I am only quoting what i have been told about labour you must be the first person i have heard that speaks about labour in such a great way! However i was induced and after hours of pain (worse pain because of induction) i know that contractions wore me out very badly, (i was hungry, weak and fed up) my vigina was also very sore and that was only from having internal examiniations by a trainiee doctor as he was the only guy avaliable at the time.

However i didnt mean to offend you with the baggy vigina comment this is what i have heard from women who confess that theirs is in an awful state! Even more so 2nd 3rd time round etc. I even know a women who had to have cosmetic surgery to correct this.

I am glad i have heard positive comments about labour from you as i can honestly say you are the first, i hope to hear many more.

However i dont feel women should be forced into viginal births if they dont want them just as someone should not be forced into a c-section.

Maybe this is why the rate of c-sections in the Uk is nearly 25% 1 in four births simply because of all the horror stories you hear on the nhs. If people were more informed about labour and heard positive things im sure the rate would drop. I have only heard bad things except from you about how horrible labour is.

I was happy to go through with a viginal birth when i was induced but after a horrible experience and a great experience with c-sections i know it form both worlds and i will choose a c-section because of this.

I will not purswade people to do this as i feel everyone should make their own choose but i will tell people of my experience to inform them that c-section for me was very pleasent, enjoyable, stress free and allowed me to have sex asap