I didnt mean it to come across like that, I project my feelings onto things all the time, its very easy to do. I didnt think you were on your high horse or anything. Not just you either, there were a few posts in a similar vein, thats why I said it.
Anyway, just wanted you to know Im coming from a place of friendliness, not snarkiness.
I didn't think you were snarking on me

I should have clarified, answering your question gave me the chance to explain my opinion in the face of the eye rolling and high horse comments, or those in a similar tone that suggested anyone not fine with this is a bit too high maintenance. I could have been all 'up yours' but then it's conversation over, I would rather explain, and explain again if necessary to at least give someone the chance to understand my position, even if they don't agree. I'm hormonal and sleepy so my first couple of responses were brief & lazy, you gave me reason to think specifically about what bothered me.