Hi Everyone

I didn't think I would end up back in this section after all the planning and preparation I put into my VBAC, but here I am and I am actually very happy with the decision we made. When I am ready I'll write it all up in my birth story, but something that has helped me is this quote given to me by one of my midwives:

"Facing Reality

That is how it is

Not how it
-was
-might have been
-should have been

Not how
-I wanted it to be
-Hoped it oul be
-Planned it would be

I accept that this is how it is
Now I'll get on with my life in a positive way"