Remember tho with preparation etc, you can feel in control of the birth (vaginal), and it might not freak out hubby so much if he sees you managing it, and if you give him specific things to do to support you. Know what I mean?

I think it's great that you're researching your decision. After doing lots of reading and research, just go with your gut feeling for what is best for you and baby, and don't worry about what people say, you'll know you've made an informed decision

Someone correct me if I'm wrong, but don't you need to find an OB who is prepared to support a vbac? If it's something you would end up considering, you'd probably have to make sure your OB is supportive of it.

All the best with deciding what to do Rachel. Whatever you choose, I hope it all goes smoothly!