Thanks for your post SammiP,
I really hadnt thought about it that way before reading your post. In fact I read the first bit and was tearing up thinking "how awful" till I read how you felt about it.

Your take on the situation is just wonderful and has inspired me. I had a really tough time in the first few weeks with feeding issues and my feelings about the birth but I'm going to have a good ole think now for the magical moment like you talk about.

Thanks so much