Thank you both.

That's exactly how I feel Riv. Dd needs to learn that she is independent, her own person. If someone is telling you to do something wrong, stand up & say no! Don't allow them to tell you what to do.

And that if they threaten to not be friends with you because you won't, then you don't want their friendship.

Dd is non judgemental, but easily led astray... Will be interesting.