How did you react..feel........

[Je$$_84]

Maz HUGS..... This happened to me for the 1st time few weeks ago... not quite as bad as yours but just as painful.

DS is 4 and very "over-active" people keep telling me.... He's a monster who is runs amok, yells and screams at me and doesnt listen. Also he has a speech delay which i think is 1/2 of his issues.

Few weeks ago he was worse then usual and was screaming at me while i was asking him to do something (i.e clean up the mess he just made). This is what unfolded
Me: "..... can you please clean ur mess mate your sister is awake and wants to play on the floor"
DS: "i dont want to"
ME: "why"
DS: " cos i dont love you" (well that was like a slap in the face... actually i think that would have hurt less.... my little boy was sayingt he didnt love me)
ME: "why dont you love me"
DS: "cos i dont like you, i hate you" ( bam, another slap then another)
Me: "Oh baby thats not nice, but even though you hate me i still love you and i'll keep on loving you for ever and ever"

DS got angry and walked off....

It happened few days latter but this time there was punching and i replyed with well i hate you too, then i burst in to tears and said i didnt and that i loved him and it hurts my heart when he says that.

Dont know how to cope.... i'm just hoping it never happens again.... I feel for you... its such an aweful feeling to hear your child say that.

Everyone is right Maz, Your an amazing person.