Hi all,

I am going to speak to the carers about the "Not friends" thing. They won't put her back into the junior room but maybe they can be abit more understanding about her (our) situation - I'll try and discuss this with the creche director and also about the staff member that she always complains about. I have asked DD why but she just says she doesn't like her she's not nice - she doesn't seem the happiest person but I've never seen her be nasty or anything with the kids.

DH and I have discussed this also and we are going to be a more united front around her and I think she's actually helped us to realise what's important also.

I have also been telling her that we have to go to creche like mummy has to go to work it helps us to get new things - great stuff like new toys and food and we can go on holidays (she understands holidays - funny how they pick that one so early!). So we'll see - thanks for all the advice I am trying to follow the various suggestions - I'll let you know how I go with the chat with the director.

xxdd