I have a dilema my 3 year old has worked out that on weekends she gets to be with mummy and daddy all day and on Mondays it's back to creche. She started by complaining that she "didn't want to go" and "doesn't like it" "don't make me go mummy" which is totally heartbreaking I am the main income earner in our house and husband has had a back injury and can't really stay home and look after the kids - so it's work/creche pay mortgage or no house and food etc etc...

It has gotten worse now with her starting the I don't want to go to creche on Sunday nights before bed her anxiety levels start peaking and it's breaking my heart I just don't know what to do and feel like a bad mother sending her I have even changed day care facilities for her but it's just the same.

Any advise on how to help her and me get through this cause me not working is not an option for us atm.

xxdd