Well its taking me this long to fix the "routine" which it isn't that he did while i worked for 8 days over 3 weeks. In that short time, and with me having to look for real estate, he f*cked things up. He was kicking me and and screwed up her routine. I'm at breaking point. On average it takes me 1 hour to get her to sleep each night and she fights her naps too. She's likely to be teething too. She won't let me hold her to settle her without her kicking the sh*t out of me and bucking like a wild bronco, screaming and fighting me. He managed to hold her a certain way and read to her some stupid Buddhist fairy tales (compared to the other fairy tales, they're weak) and hold her to sleep. he won't let me hold her to sleep. She used to but she's so strong now I can't. I just gave her teething relief and 15 minutes later she's still yelling and for the first time in more than 6 weeks, I gave her paracetamol. The only way I can get her to sleep easily is to rock her in the pram. But she wakes on transfer and we're back to the beginning. I'm going to make a top up and change her nappy to see if that helps.