I was so totally against co-sleeping when I had my DD as she hated it and would only settle in her cot, in her room by herself. She hated being cuddled to sleep or held while she was sleeping so I never understood co-sleeping either. Then along came my little snugglepot DS. From the minute he was born all he wants to do is sleep in my arms. Honestly, it drives me absolutely mental during the day and early evening when there is a stack of things I have to do around the house and try to play with DD and I get no time off at all as he will only settle for me. But on the other hand I love our night time snuggles. I'm weird I still get up to feed him even when he is in our bed. At night we co-sleep as needed and we'll do it for as long as I have to so we can all get some sleep. If he isn't with me if that's where he wants to be no-one in the house can sleep through his tanties.