Thanks for your replies everyone.

I have to say that it feels much better to know that I'm not the only one in the same predicament. It's good to be reminded that it is only for a short period of time (hopefully ) that he'll need me to help him sleep.

Most of the time I don't mind the whole putting to bed scenario. Sure it would be better if it was a quick 15 min job! It starts to bother me a bit when I have to turn down invitations for dinner etc, but even more so when I have to explain why. People think I'm crazy, particularly those with kids who don't comfort their bubs to sleep. I feel their disapproving thoughts!

It would be easier if my mother was more supportive of my approach to parenting too. She no longer makes any comment good or bad...but I know what she is thinking...