i honestly think if it wasn't for the reflux my girl would be a MUCH MUCH better sleeper... yes she has a strong personality and can fight sleep til the cows come home, but to me it just doesn't make sense why some weeks she goes down without a peep, then others she is so upset and crying, then comes the vomiting... anyways.... i am resorting to trying to get her to sleep in her swing at the moment, and at night am putting her in her pram in an upright position and rocking it.... i know what u mean about curing you of the want for more children, on a good week i think 'i love this, i love being a mum, i want four children' and on a bad day/week i think 'i just can't do this anymore i'm not cut out for it'.... like last night... last night was a bad night. anyhoo, i will PM u the details on the day stay.