thanks Ambah, that pretty much sounds like us! Guess it's just nice to know we're normal!! I was hoping for a really quick way, I think Im less patient at that time, not helped with having Tilly who needs things like dinner, bath, home work and bed!! DH helps out too, but he's going to be back at uni from next week, so I'll be on my own at nights. Not looking forward to it xoxo