Gee ladies, thank you soo much

I had tears in my eyes reading your replies i knew i wasnt being silly, im glad i got that out in the open.

Ill have a talk with him about it like that. I am kinda begining to feel like i just have to wait for him for everything. I dont want to push, hence not wanting to talk about the fact i was upset my friends were going ahead with everything and im still hanging out waiting for DH.

I guess i dont want the same thing to happen to me as with my mother my dad walked out while mum was 7 months pregnant with me and havent heard from him since, also she was left homeless...Our situation is much different, we're married, have 2 homes and we are solid. But nevertheless, try to avoid pushing, but on the flip side, when are men ever ready? He initially said "i always thought id start about 27 yrs of age" so im all excited that the 27th bday is looming, then he changed it to 28 (my heart was dropp kicked).that really annoyed me.

Ill talk about the time thing, after all its my life too and i keep forgetting that i can be selfish in having a say about that too...

Thanks again xxx

Eliza