I dont think there is ever a right time to have a baby - there will always be some questions you are unable to answer. But yes, you do seem to have the 'perfect set up ' for a new child .YOu need to sit down and talk with him about time frames - nitty gritty stuff, you need to know dates, times, years - KWIM ???

My DH and i had been going out for 4 years, we were 30 and 28 respectively. Marriage wasnt a huge 'deal' to us, kids were a big deal to me. I said to him its either children or im leaving. It sounds harsh, but it was what i wanted out of the relationship, i didnt understand the point in hanging around if he didnt share my dreams. Im not saying you need to give your DH an ultimatum, just that sometimes they need it set out how it is , i.e you want a baby, when are we going to have one ?