hi Puppies,

I've been TTC since 2006, and am soo happy to give support to anyone regardless of how long it takes. Please so never feel bad or worried when comming to this space we are all hear for the outlet it offers.

I found it really really helpful charting. If I had an anovulation cycle or my CM wasn't egg white, or my temprature dropped below incubation temp. I know that this couldn't have been my month. Espesially the anovulation cycles, It helped with the dissapointment because that was a month that I could never have got pgt. As I look back the charting also showed continious improvement in my bodies reactions. So, although that month was a no go, things were getting progressivly better.

I also found that once I stopped trying to deal with the sadness, and accepted it as part of the process, it was much eaiser to move on to the next try and the next happy day. It was almost like, Yep theres the sadness, that's the sign that moves me to next cycle instead of a sign that i need to steel up and take it.

I hope that helps a little, I like the idea of a pamer session, I think a pedicure may be in order. .......

Warm and Sunny Smiles

Mel