I suggest charting.
Something i was told, was, to live your life as normal. Dont think "I wonder if" all the time. If AF is due in 5days, and you want a drink, then have it. Cause, the more you put your life on hold waiting and wondering, the harder it will be. It took as 14months to conceive Aiden, and i didnt have BellyBelly then, and i thought it was an long time. Now i know better, and, it certainly isnt any easier the 2nd time around.

Dont think about, if i am preg, this time next year.... dont think i will wait till i am preg before i do....