Lisa, honestly, he is playing a game. LOL in his mind it is fun... to you it is not. My DF is pretty adament he doesnt wanna TTC right now, and he says no when i bring it up, says we have to wait till next year etc etc AND when it comes time for DTD, he will NOT go near me without protection for the reality is it would happen. Your hubby obviously isnt phased really if you do fall.. which is unfair on you hey cause as you say you want it to be done properly! I feel for you... least my guy is giving clear signals, even if they arent the signals i want!!!!! lol

I just want to know WHY the urge is so strong when i can think of a million reasons why now sint the right time. I have even turned spiritual thinking there is a little spirit that obviously wants to come through and be apart of our family, and thats why lol.....

ahhhhhhhhhhhh