Lisa, ****!! lol doesnt this totally represent and perfectly dispay the differences between a MAN and a WOMAN!! lol

I got my man's opinion on your dh last night and i told him very basically the deal and my man just stood there, totally confused he had that confused squashed up look and put his hands out and said "what the ****"... he instantly said, well. its a game... "he has turned it in a game"... "almost like he know's the power he has, so its a power game" ...

I totally agree with my man! Your DH is on a HUGE and i mean HUGE power play and LOVING every second... i dont write this with any malise trust me, i just cant believe the game he is playing, yet he cant see how serious it is for you.

Him saying "if you fall pregnant, great, if you dont great" well... in my opinion my love, what you guys are doing right now is NTTNC.... (not trying to not concieve)!

Maybe, what we need to do here is find a happy medium between you both... he doesnt wanna say your TTC, so you dont wanna put that label on it (as us women love to do, we love to have a label for everything in our heads/life), but yet there is no proactive protection against pregnancy happening so, why dont you just use the NTTNC label.... So, you are officially atm NTTNC!!

As you both have said, he will be happy if you did fall pregnant, so at the end of the day..... go with it. Its not like you are being dishonest in leading him to believe your protected yet letting him go in un-armed! lol.. he knows the deal.... and he knows the results that can come from his dealing's lol...

I reckon either way love, im exceptionaly jelouse and envious of you! Id even be happy with NTTNC'ing right now..... *sighs* but my guy is just so damn strong willed and adament. LOL.

I tried again last night to breech the topic and put all my arguments up, lol and i got a "im not saying we arent going to try, just not yet... next year"

*silently screams* lol

Hopefully i have helped somewhat, if not well. least im here to listen !!!