it would be fantastic if it were as easy as the sex-ed teachers at school try to make you believe!!

both my brother and I were "oops" babies - from what i gather, my mum's siblings (all 13 of them) weren't really planned - and i KNOW both my nan and her sister were oops babies (my great nan was only 14 when she had nan...) - on dad's side, my nan told me she'd never had problems and none of my female cousins have - so it's making it a lot harder accepting that i'm having problems! the rest of my family get utd at the drop of a hat! i can certainly understand your frustrations