thanks everyone but im not telling him, its just not an option. i would rather feel guilt for the rest of my life than hurt everyone around us. and no i havent told the other guy im pregnant. i caused this and i just want to fix it myself, not get anyone else involved. have pretty much decided on a termination unless the dr's can tell me that its medically impossible for it to be the other guys, (which i know wont happen). i want to keep this baby but theres too many risks. i just want to forget this ever happened and move on!