Hey ali - thanks, i didn't snap at her, i just had to walk away! she text me straight away and of course I apologised as i don't usually get upset really, i was having a shocking day! Yeah i am also a big one for speaking my mind and sometimes putting my foot in it so I don't feel like she did anything wrong!

alana - thank you for your comments appreciate it! nice that people here are understanding and that you have also had something similar happen, although that sux at least you can relate to me. As mentioned the friend doesn't really know I was trying for so long so i don't think she intentionally meant it. she did fall pregnant accidently and her sister was going through IVF and infront of her she would make comments all the time about hoping she doesn't fall again and how she didn't really want to have a baby etc... think she just doesn't really think before she speaks. Most of the people i work with are guys, i've met a good friend through art classes, am starting netball soon and have just started learning spanish! so finding ways to keep busy and to stop feeling sorry for myself!