Myson - Yeah, my cervix is always open a little bit too, apparently just the plug that keeps it closed in pregnancy. But I do notice it opens a little bit more during O and definately feels soft like lips (sorry TMI), the rest of the time it is kinda just a slit. Got no idea whether you could be Oing though, I still think you should go to a Dr to see if there is something you can do to regulate your cycles.

Mik - how is the pg going?
Thanks for asking, pg is going well, nose bleeds, heart burn, not fitting into my pants anymore... All the joys
I am 18 weeks i was just reading up and i cannot believe that i m nearly 1/2 way, it feel like only yesterday that i shared the news with you ladies. That was weeks before my own family knew too !