its a good theory to step back physcially and emotionally

in practice , some have extra needs and need support so they end up getting support even if they are in some ways a burden, or rude or unappreciative, unaware of how much time money everything takes, and at times i suffer from them being troubled, but i have compassion. a relative in my family was like that, mistreated, but always gave when she could. I am struggling with that. Its not what i want but it seems at times the best choice.
I havent read your other threads but what exactly are there special needs. What type of support are they being given?