Sue, I have never seen any of your other posts that I can recall.
I have no knowledge of your family or your situation.

But my own mother is no longer here to say this to, and I wish she was - nobody ever said it enough when she was here:
Thank you. Thank you for sacrificing for your children, for all the late nights, the school camps, the dinners and lunch boxes, the shoulder to dry on, the clean washing, the vacuumed floors. The made beds and soccer games, the car trips and rescue missions at 2am, school books and Christmas presents. The handkerchiefs, the dentist visits, the hand holding, the birthday cakes...The polished school shoes, the Canteen Duties, the help with school projects the night before they were due, the shopping trips and hair cuts...Thank you for you love and support, your compassion and understanding, your faith and healing...And thank you for the knowledge you will do any and all until the end of days for your children.

I hope that they will realize how special mum is before it is too late.