I hear you!

It's not fair that your sister puts you down to make herself feel better about her insecurities. If it wasn't weight it would be something else I'm sure of it!

I think I look my best at about 55 kilos, but some people (my Mum and MIL had a go too) would point out that my butt was getting big or I had a pot belly. Well der I had 2 kids (at the time, Angus was a baby).

Last year I got down to 47 kilos (not from doing any dieting I have to add, it just happened like that) and then I got the too skinny comments. I was a bridesmaid for my SIL and after I got my dress MIL carried on that I better not put on any weight blahblahblah. You should have heard her at the wedding, (she's not quiet, she laughs like a strangled cat) telling EVERYONE that I had to watch what I ate for the first time in my life so I would be able to wear it. Piffle! I was sensible but I didn't diet.

I swear it feels sometimes that I can't converse with anyone without them commenting about my weight. It's hardly ever nice either! I get compliments occasionally which surprise me and I usually wait for the sarcasm. DH loves me for who I am and keeps talking me out of getting a boob job I think that insecurity comes from my mum who's favourite put down line is "the girls got no boobs".

49kg and below for a 5'4 girl is considered underweight to the point where you are deemed anorexic!
Limey I'm far from anorexic and I am 5'4" and 47 kilos (well could be a bit more now I'm PG but haven't weighed myself for weeks). I am on the low end of the BMI but my Dr is happy enough with my weight as I am fleshy and muscular. I have a very light bone structure though which is partly attributed to my low weight.