I have never said anything straight back to her face, and i never say anything about her weight. Not because i dont want to hurt her feelings, i just dont even notice the details. She actually points out to specific parts, my tummy, thighs, calves etc.

I do try to ignore it but after every 10 or so incidents i have a bit of a breakdown like tonight....

thanks everyone for listening and responding to my vent. You have given me a few laughs and made me feel better.