Just thought I'd pop in and say hi...
Marg...I so understand where you are coming from. I have just hit 10weeks and have started thinking about what people are going to say when they find out I am pregnant. I know it's going to be such 'goss' for a while and I am sure plenty with get good mileage out of it...but you know what?? I don't care. I am doing this for me and nobody else.
Like you I thought it would all work out fine with the house, picket fence and 2.4 kids by age 34. Well it didnt happen. People keep looking at me in amazement as they can't understand why. Well that's how it is..
So Marg - I hear ya... just because it doesnt happen the way it does for some...go ahead and make it happen because you want it to!!
I'll be thinking of you thru the next cycle and will keep an eye open in here..

best..Lulu