Tarkine,

Good luck with all that is going on with you and i hope you get your bundle in 2008
My hubby and i have done, the egg, the sperm donor thing and now onto donor embryo.
As far as telling anyone that is a personal choice for you and your DH and no one can tell you what to do. It is what you guys feel comfortable with. WE told our families about the whole thing as they have followed and supported our journey over the years, and after failing with our own dna we moved onto donors and were 110% supported by our families and friends. Counsellors have told us over the years that it is up to the parents to tell or not to tell. Anyway just wanted to wish you luck with your journey and i hope its a short one.