I tend to trust my instincts regardless of how the heart or head feels about a situation. I've not read the other thread so do not know what its about BUT I kinda believe there are NO bad decisions, whatever you decide is right.

If it makes a situation worse then clearly there was a lesson that needed to be learned no matter how difficult

If it makes a situation better then great.

Worse case scenario if I cannot hear my little inside voice I write a list of pro's and cons for each way and see how they marry up. If that fails I flip a coin needless to say I have never flipped a coin.

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