the only violence in my marriage would come about if one of us cheated then god help the plates

How truely sad and unsettling that she thinks it completely normal to settle for second best what kind of role model is she to her child and any future children.

Good god, my parents have been married for 51 years and dad has NEVER beat or cheated on my mother...he worships the ground she walks on and vice versa.

truely sad