hi ladies
a friend of mine suffered this really badly and it was really affecting her relationship with her DH. she eventually did an exploratory lap etc and everything was clear but they did find that her hymen had never been broken. that was one of the problems solved but the other one was psychological as she always associated intercourse with pain and hence was adverse to it and tensed up every time. she still had problems and needs to see a psychologist which has been very helpful in overcoming this and other anxiety problems.

i HTH
xx