Yes I do sometimes. DP starts work either 3 or 4am, gets home around 1pm, has lunch, reads paper, goes on the computer, is then really tired but may spend a bit of time with DS (not really knowing what to do) and then is in bed around 7pm (another baker here!) On his days off, he often goes out with friends for drinks during the night and is pretty useless the next day

I sleep with DS in another room, am solely bfing, give him baths (DP has never given him a bath), organise all his appointments (he has some medical issues), etc etc. He never knows what to do with DS. Even when changing a nappy and he will call me to help Hehe I love him but gee he's so clueless! I know he'd love to spend more time with us though.

Even though I am with DS so much more than DP is, DP still gets all the smiles and I get the cranky baby!

I sympathise!