hell yes i sympathise! not so much due to work, although that takes up a hell of a lot of time, but dh doesn't really know what to do when the kids are sick, or if i'm sick i'm still doing everything anyway. he's a great dad, and most weekends will take the kids out for the day, but then i have to do the housework.

dd is teething at the moment, and dh has no idea how to deal with her through the night, so i'm up all night with a miserable baby, who's still miserable the next day cause she hasn't slept. lots of fun.