Anna
I myself was bought up in the military life and even though I was really too young to remember it all, I do remember the moving.
I live in Rutherglen not that far away from you and I suppose all I can offer you is my friendship and help if you need it. The decision is totally up to you and your husband but my opinion would be, to stay put until after you have this baby. Reading about your previous history, If you moved now there is a chance either way that the pre eclampsia could strike again, and then your Dh could possibly miss the birth....If you need to talk you have my numbers.