Nope not ok ladybird, I wouldn't have acted as calmly as you full stop. The things he is saying are a cop out. And these issues really need to be talked about, they can't be swept under the rug. The mistrust has now been planted, and if nothing is done it will grow into a massive problem. Hugs, and I hope you guys can work through this together.

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