Yep, I did mean the post in exactly that way. It's good to know there are others who feel the same way.

I think that the 2 m/c still affects a lot of what I do and feel. It's a bit of a mixed bag of emotions sometimes, like being grateful vs. having whinge every now and then. Mother's Day coming up has made me think about it all a lot more too as it's a significant day for us (found out I was PG the day before Mother's Day in 2003, date of 2nd m/c in 2004...), so it's stirred up a few things!