Thanks Shades for the FS recommendation. He was actually the one that I was going to start with. And thank you for the link to the abbreviations forum. I tried looking before I asked but obviously didn't look hard enough

We have thought about asking family members. Not sure if my family would be too accepting of that and I think it would make telling our children the truth more difficult. But I do love the idea of me using a donor from Jo's family and Jo using a donor from my family.

Really wishing that I could just produce the little swimmers myself Wouldn't that be great. Ahh...*signs*... I can only dream.