After DD1 I thought I would never go through that whole experience again.
Horrible pregnancy, birth and then screaming newborn.

It took me about 3 years to come around to thinking about another one and 4 years before I felt as though I was ready and def. wanted another.

I have a 4yr 9 mth age gap and can honestly I love it.
Pregnancy wasn't so bad, the birth was better and I am much more relaxed the second time around.

Next bub I will have another big age gap, at least three years.

SO don't worry about it and go at your own pace, there is nothing wrong with just 1