A 2nd baby scares me to death!

[aussienic]

When I had my first I was working, my son didn't sleep at night and I was just exhausted.. Dh wanted another one when he was 6 months old and I just looked at him like he was completely insane.. When he was 18 months old I decided I felt ready.. In the end we didn't have bub number 2 till Ds1 was over 4. The age gap worked out for us in the end

Your son is only 9 months old.. Things will get better. Enjoy your son and enjoy the time yuou have with just him and if you choose to just have the one then so be it.. Not everyone has to have more then one child.. You do what suits you and your family..

[danniellabella]

My DD is 13 months and I still don't feel like another bub and not sure if I ever will. I'm starting to get asked when we are going to have another one more often now and a lot of people are shocked when I say that I don't want another one yet.

[BabyMama]

Thanks everyone. It's good to be reassured that I might still change my mind and if I don't, that's ok too.