Babymama I could have written your post myself. Everything is basically identical. At the moment it is a no go zone for having another. My DH definately doesn't yet either, he says possibly when DS is 5. I am starting to think possibly when he is 3 we will consider it but at the moment I see a newborn and how dependent they are and I just think NOOOOOOOOO. I know I wouldn't cope. DS was awake hourly last night plus is clingy and demanding of my attention. There is no way I would want to be pregnant right now, but everyone is different.

I got really annoyed at my mum when DS was only a few months old she started mentioning when I had a daughter!!!! Isaid we might not have another. I got told 'You have to". My response was "Why, do I have to have another child". If we don't have another bub at the moment I am fine with that. But I do worry as DS gets very spoilt already.

You are so not alone in your thoughts.