Yep! I think everyone judges, it's human nature. I have some friends that do things that shock and surprise me...I don't say anything though. I don't enter in conversation with them about it..or if it appears to be heading in that direction and I feel that my opinion would upset i usually cut it short by making some comment about how everyone parents differently. I don't think it's worth entering into that territory unless they ask what i think...they are good friends and it's not worth ruining the friendship over it. If they do ask my opinion i usually respond with that's not what I would do as I prefer this...and go from there...it's more friendly and less accusing!! So I do judge, everyone does I believe, but I don't pass my judgement on.