Yep, I judge people, but I don't let them see my negative thoughts, and so far hasn't affected any relationships with people.. I think anyone who says they don't aren't being totally honest with themselves. It is how you deal with your judgment that matters..

We are all different, and what is the norm for me isn't going to be the norm for you or the next person I see. I normally comment about others parenting actions that I don't like to DH (but if I felt someone was doing something to put a child in great danger, I would have to work out a subtle way of bringing it up ).

I have family members and friends that do things that we don't do with our DD, but they are in no danger, so not really my place to say anything.