Yes I do judge and Im a better mother for it. If I can ignoledge the faults others have then I can learn fom them NOT to do it. Im saying the 'terrible' stuff. Like a terrible diet for your child (aslong as I know for a fact the diet is terrible, not taking the time for both your children etc I could go on, trust me.
We dont speak or want to know Clints sister A) For her LACK of parenting B) We cant trust her or her husband around Annabelle C) Everytime I see her parenting it makes me sick!
I DO judge and Im not ashamed because those who Im judging, should be.

Eg: I dont judge petty stuff or anything I dont understand. A little girl was at the doctors while I was and she would have been about 2 and was WELL over weight. Some old ladies next to me were *****ing. I had to move away from them as I truly didn't understand why that little one was so big and I could tell it wasn't from over eating, poor little bubba wasn't well at all. Hence what I mean by, if I dont know the facts I tend not to let myself judge.